三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報道
精彩| 社??(she)交?(jiao)降??(jiang)級?(ji)??，降??(jiang)下??(xia)來??(lai)的??(de)是??(shi)時??(shi)間??(jian)、經(jīng)??(jing)濟(jì)??(ji)和??(he)心??(xin)理??(li)維??(wei)度??(du)的??(de)負(fù)??(fu)荷??(he)??。??當(dāng)??(dang)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)放??(fang)下??(xia)了??(le)對??(dui)人??(ren)脈??(mai)的??(de)執(zhí)?(zhi)念??(nian)??，走??(zou)出??(chu)了??(le)人??(ren)情??(qing)的??(de)羅??(luo)網(wǎng)??(wang)??，他??(ta)們??(men)或??(huo)許??(xu)終??(zhong)可??(ke)在??(zai)一??(yi)種??(zhong)更?(geng)簡??(jian)單??(dan)和??(he)純??(chun)粹??(cui)的??(de)生??(sheng)活??(huo)中??(zhong)怡??(yi)然??(ran)自??(zi)得??(de)??。與??(yu)其?(qi)說??(shuo)“中??(zhong)年?(nian)人??(ren)都??(dou)在??(zai)社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”??，不??(bu)如??(ru)說??(shuo)越??(yue)來??(lai)越??(yue)多??(duo)的?(de)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)??，重??(zhong)新??(xin)開?(kai)始??(shi)做??(zuo)自?(zi)己??(ji)??。跳??(tiao)出??(chu)盤??(pan)根??(gen)錯??(cuo)節(jié)??(jie)的??(de)人?(ren)際??(ji)羈??(ji)絆??(ban)??，取??(qu)舍??(she)之??(zhi)間??(jian)??，又??(you)何??(he)嘗??(chang)不??(bu)是??(shi)一??(yi)種??(zhong)價??(jia)值??(zhi)置??(zhi)換??(huan)呢??(ne)？?回??(hui)歸??(gui)家??(jia)庭??(ting)??，回??(hui)歸??(gui)本??(ben)心??(xin)??，中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)的??(de)選??(xuan)擇??(ze)??，殊??(shu)途??(tu)同??(tong)歸??(gui)??。 在??(zai)中?(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)的??(de)世??(shi)界??(jie)里??(li)??，“社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”源??(yuan)自??(zi)內(nèi)??(nei)外??(wai)兩??(liang)個??(ge)方??(fang)面??(mian)??。??一??(yi)個??(ge)是??(shi)“被??(bei)動??(dong)的??(de)結(jié)??(jie)果??(guo)”??，基??(ji)于??(yu)上??(shang)述??(shu)的??(de)種??(zhong)種??(zhong)原??(yuan)因?(yin)；另?(ling)一??(yi)個??(ge)則??(ze)是??(shi)“主??(zhu)動??(dong)的??(de)選??(xuan)擇??(ze)”??，傳??(chuan)遞??(di)了??(le)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)整??(zheng)理??(li)人??(ren)際??(ji)關(guān)?(guan)系??(xi)減??(jian)少??(shao)無??(wu)效?(xiao)社??(she)交??(jiao)的??(de)努??(nu)力??(li)??。就??(jiu)此??(ci)而??(er)言?(yan)??，“社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”??，又??(you)何??(he)嘗??(chang)不??(bu)是??(shi)與??(yu)自??(zi)我??(wo)的??(de)和??(he)解??(jie)??，是?(shi)一??(yi)次?(ci)適??(shi)時??(shi)的??(de)減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)呢??(ne)？??社??(she)交??(jiao)降?(jiang)級??(ji)??，疏??(shu)遠(yuǎn)?(yuan)的??(de)是??(shi)“第??(di)二??(er)圈??(quan)層??(ceng)”“第??(di)三??(san)圈??(quan)層??(ceng)”的?(de)萍??(ping)水??(shui)之??(zhi)交??(jiao)??，去??(qu)掉?(diao)的??(de)是??(shi)酒??(jiu)局?(ju)、飯??(fan)局??(ju)的??(de)逢??(feng)場??(chang)作??(zuo)戲??(xi)??，省??(sheng)去??(qu)的??(de)是??(shi)裝??(zhuang)腔??(qiang)作??(zuo)勢??(shi)、講??(jiang)排??(pai)場??(chang)、走??(zou)過??(guo)場??(chang)的??(de)不??(bu)堪??(kan)重??(zhong)負(fù)??(fu)——社??(she)交??(jiao)降?(jiang)級??(ji)不??(bu)是??(shi)離??(li)群??(qun)索??(suo)居??(ju)??，而??(er)是??(shi)一??(yi)種??(zhong)隨??(sui)心??(xin)隨??(sui)性??(xing)的??(de)“輕??(qing)質(zhì)??(zhi)社??(she)交??(jiao)”??。
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