三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報道
精彩| “中??(zhong)年??(nian)人?(ren)都??(dou)在??(zai)社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”的??(de)話?(hua)題??(ti)標??(biao)簽??(qian)?,著??(zhe)實??(shi)是??(shi)有?(you)些?(xie)夸??(kua)張??(zhang)了??(le)??。??然??(ran)而??(er)不?(bu)可??(ke)否??(fou)認??(ren)?,從??(cong)近??(jin)年??(nian)來??(lai)的??(de)大??(da)趨??(qu)勢??(shi)看??(kan)?,中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)的??(de)社??(she)交??(jiao)模??(mo)式??(shi)?,確??(que)乎??(hu)發(fā)??(fa)生??(sheng)了??(le)某??(mou)些??(xie)微??(wei)妙??(miao)而??(er)深??(shen)刻??(ke)的??(de)變??(bian)化??(hua)??。社??(she)交??(jiao)活??(huo)動??(dong)?,尤??(you)其??(qi)是??(shi)線?(xian)下??(xia)社??(she)交?(jiao)的??(de)萎??(wei)縮?(suo)?,幾??(ji)乎??(hu)以??(yi)一?(yi)種??(zhong)悄?(qiao)無??(wu)聲??(sheng)息?(xi)的??(de)方?(fang)式??(shi)持??(chi)續(xù)??(xu)進?(jin)行??(xing)??。這??(zhe)種??(zhong)“萎??(wei)縮??(suo)”?,不??(bu)是?(shi)那??(na)種?(zhong)戛??(jia)然??(ran)而??(er)止??(zhi)式??(shi)的??(de)“消??(xiao)隱??(yin)”與??(yu)“失??(shi)聯(lián)??(lian)”?,而??(er)是??(shi)漸??(jian)進?(jin)的??(de)、不??(bu)知??(zhi)不??(bu)覺??(jiao)的??(de)“斷??(duan)舍??(she)離??(li)”??。驀??(mo)然??(ran)回?(hui)首??(shou)?,聚??(ju)少??(shao)離??(li)多??(duo)的??(de)朋??(peng)友??(you)們??(men)?,索??(suo)性??(xing)越??(yue)走??(zou)越??(yue)遠?(yuan);久??(jiu)別??(bie)重??(zhong)逢??(feng)?,曾??(zeng)經(jīng)??(jing)的??(de)無??(wu)話??(hua)不??(bu)談?(tan)已??(yi)成??(cheng)相??(xiang)顧??(gu)無??(wu)言??(yan)??。越??(yue)發(fā)??(fa)稀??(xi)疏?(shu)凋??(diao)零??(ling)的??(de)人??(ren)際??(ji)網(wǎng)??(wang)?,化?(hua)作??(zuo)人?(ren)至??(zhi)中?(zhong)年??(nian)的??(de)又??(you)一??(yi)惆??(chou)悵??(chang)???! ∩?(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)??,降??(jiang)下??(xia)來??(lai)的??(de)是??(shi)時??(shi)間??(jian)、經(jīng)??(jing)濟??(ji)和??(he)心??(xin)理??(li)維??(wei)度??(du)的??(de)負??(fu)荷??(he)?。??當??(dang)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)放??(fang)下??(xia)了??(le)對??(dui)人?(ren)脈??(mai)的??(de)執(zhí)??(zhi)念??(nian)??,走??(zou)出??(chu)了??(le)人??(ren)情??(qing)的??(de)羅??(luo)網(wǎng)??(wang)??,他??(ta)們??(men)或??(huo)許??(xu)終??(zhong)可??(ke)在?(zai)一??(yi)種??(zhong)更??(geng)簡??(jian)單??(dan)和??(he)純??(chun)粹??(cui)的??(de)生??(sheng)活??(huo)中??(zhong)怡??(yi)然?(ran)自??(zi)得??(de)?。與??(yu)其??(qi)說??(shuo)“中?(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)都??(dou)在??(zai)社??(she)交??(jiao)降??(jiang)級??(ji)”??,不??(bu)如??(ru)說??(shuo)越??(yue)來??(lai)越??(yue)多??(duo)的??(de)中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)??,重??(zhong)新??(xin)開??(kai)始??(shi)做??(zuo)自??(zi)己??(ji)?。跳??(tiao)出??(chu)盤??(pan)根??(gen)錯??(cuo)節(jié)??(jie)的??(de)人?(ren)際??(ji)羈??(ji)絆??(ban)??,取??(qu)舍??(she)之??(zhi)間??(jian)??,又??(you)何??(he)嘗??(chang)不??(bu)是??(shi)一??(yi)種?(zhong)價??(jia)值??(zhi)置??(zhi)換??(huan)呢??(ne)???回??(hui)歸??(gui)家??(jia)庭??(ting)??,回??(hui)歸??(gui)本??(ben)心?(xin)??,中??(zhong)年??(nian)人??(ren)的??(de)選??(xuan)擇??(ze)??,殊??(shu)途??(tu)同??(tong)歸??(gui)?。
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