三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報道
精彩| 同??(tong)時??(shi)??，這??(zhe)個??(ge)人??(ren)情??(qing)賬??(zhang)戶??(hu)不??(bu)僅??(jin)是??(shi)金??(jin)錢??(qian)上??(shang)的??(de)??，也??(ye)是?(shi)心?(xin)理??(li)上??(shang)的??(de)??。??人??(ren)情??(qing)不??(bu)要??(yao)攀??(pan)比??(bi)??，人??(ren)情??(qing)也??(ye)求??(qiu)不??(bu)來??(lai)??。不??(bu)管??(guan)是??(shi)親??(qin)友??(you)往??(wang)來??(lai)還?(hai)是??(shi)職??(zhi)場?(chang)人??(ren)情??(qing)??，該??(gai)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)時??(shi)要??(yao)學??(xue)會??(hui)拒?(ju)絕??(jue)??。對??(dui)于?(yu)很??(hen)多??(duo)人??(ren)情??(qing)來??(lai)說??(shuo)??，其?(qi)實??(shi)并??(bing)不??(bu)是?(shi)非??(fei)去??(qu)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)送??(song)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)請??(qing)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)幫??(bang)不??(bu)可?(ke)??。在?(zai)接??(jie)到??(dao)一?(yi)份??(fen)邀??(yao)請??(qing)時??(shi)??，我??(wo)們??(men)首??(shou)先?(xian)要?(yao)對??(dui)這?(zhe)件?(jian)事??(shi)的??(de)重??(zhong)要??(yao)性??(xing)和??(he)必??(bi)要??(yao)性??(xing)進??(jin)行??(xing)基??(ji)本??(ben)判??(pan)斷?(duan)??，綜??(zong)合??(he)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)時??(shi)間??(jian)安??(an)排??(pai)、財??(cai)務??(wu)能??(neng)力??(li)作??(zuo)出??(chu)決??(jue)定??(ding)??，而??(er)不??(bu)是?(shi)因??(yin)為??(wei)“不??(bu)好??(hao)意??(yi)思??(si)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)”“怕??(pa)沒??(mei)面??(mian)子??(zi)”等??(deng)理??(li)由??(you)徒??(tu)受??(shou)其??(qi)累?(lei)??。為??(wei)人??(ren)情??(qing)交??(jiao)往??(wang)“減??(jian)負??(fu)”??，首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)學??(xue)會??(hui)為??(wei)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)心??(xin)態(tài)??(tai)“減?(jian)負??(fu)”??。要?(yao)知??(zhi)道??(dao)??，拒??(ju)絕??(jue)一??(yi)場??(chang)職??(zhi)場??(chang)聚??(ju)餐??(can)邀??(yao)請??(qing)??，并??(bing)不??(bu)會??(hui)讓??(rang)自??(zi)己??(ji)從??(cong)此??(ci)顯??(xian)得??(de)“不??(bu)合??(he)群??(qun)”；用??(yong)適??(shi)當??(dang)理??(li)由??(you)婉??(wan)拒??(ju)一??(yi)位??(wei)普??(pu)通??(tong)朋?(peng)友??(you)的??(de)婚??(hun)宴??(yan)邀??(yao)約?(yue)??，相?(xiang)信??(xin)也??(ye)會??(hui)得??(de)到??(dao)對?(dui)方??(fang)的??(de)理??(li)解??(jie)??。 首??(shou)先??(xian)??，要??(yao)學??(xue)會??(hui)建??(jian)立??(li)人??(ren)情??(qing)賬??(zhang)戶??(hu)??。?現(xiàn)??(xian)實??(shi)中??(zhong)??，人??(ren)們??(men)時??(shi)常??(chang)覺??(jiao)得??(de)人??(ren)情??(qing)負??(fu)擔?(dan)很??(hen)重?(zhong)??，但?(dan)是??(shi)僅??(jin)僅??(jin)停??(ting)留??(liu)在??(zai)感??(gan)覺??(jiao)層??(ceng)面?(mian)??。自??(zi)己??(ji)每??(mei)個??(ge)月??(yue)到??(dao)底?(di)為??(wei)人??(ren)情??(qing)開??(kai)支??(zhi)了??(le)多??(duo)少??(shao)??，這??(zhe)些??(xie)支??(zhi)出??(chu)占??(zhan)據(jù)?(ju)自??(zi)己??(ji)收??(shou)入??(ru)的??(de)多?(duo)少??(shao)比??(bi)例?(li)??，很??(hen)多??(duo)人??(ren)心??(xin)里?(li)其??(qi)實??(shi)并??(bing)不??(bu)清??(qing)楚??(chu)??。
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